Does single-blessedness suddenly seem not so blessed anymore? If you're wracking your brain fortips on how to get a girlfriend, you might be one of the countless males who've unexpectedly found it unbearable to be single on Valentine's Day, or any other day for that matter. So here are some tips on how to get a girlfriend before the next Day of Hearts rolls past and leaves you alone in the dust.
Be visible.
Short of announcing your availability to the world, a more subtle way of showing you're unattached is to make the rounds. You can't possibly expect to get yourself a girl if you remain locked up in your room, content with dreaming about it. Socialize and mingle. Have friends set you up on dates.
If you're uncomfortable with the idea, perhaps a double date will help. Having two other friends with you for support can lessen the jitters and make you feel more confident and at ease.
Take it slow.
Don't be overanxious about getting into a relationship. Don't make a nuisance of yourself by calling and texting nonstop. Ask when it would be okay to phone her.
Take things at her pace. Instead of a full-course dinner, take her out for coffee first. A casual setting such as a cafe will give her time to adjust comfortably and get to know you more. If things turn out according to plan, then you may ask her out again.
Be sincere.
Flattery will get you nowhere-unless you really mean it. Avoid spewing cheesy lines you've obviously culled from Jerry Maguire. This will only make you appear pretentious and contrived.
Be respectful.
Treat her the way you'd want other guys to treat your sister, your mother or any woman you care about. If she refuses your invitations, do not force yourself on her. There are always other opportunities to meet other girls. Who knows, she might even change her mind and call you back.
Be creative and original.
Flowers and chocolates are sweet gifts; but admittedly, they are quite boring and generic. Give her something original, something she will truly appreciate, something that tells her you've put a lot of thought into it. You may have to do a bit of research and enlist the help of her friends to find out what stuff she's into. They will be more than happy to assist you. Not only will this endear you to her, but it will get you the all-important thumbs-up from her friends as well.
Listen.
Don't keep talking about yourself and your most daring exploits. A meaningful conversation is a two-way street. Look her in the eye when she tells you something. Give her your absolute and undivided attention. Act as though you are the only two people in the room and make her feel like she is your whole world.
Be consistent.
So she's finally agreed to be your girlfriend. That doesn't mean you can slack and simply forget about that stage when you were doing your darned best to please and impress her. That stage is never over, even after you've won her over. Keep up everything that got her to fall for you in the first place and make them second nature to you.
Hit the movies.
Sometimes, Hollywood does know what it's talking about. Rent the film, "Hitch," starring Will Smith. There is a wealth of ideas to be gained here on how to properly treat a woman and win her heart.
These tips on how to get a girlfriend may be able to help you a great deal, but keep in mind that the best and foolproof course of action is still to be the perfect gentleman.
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